In Memoriam: Andy Prokop-Friend, Father, Leader, Veteran, Humanitarian

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Andy Prokop, a cherished friend, father, leader, veteran, and humanitarian. Andy left us on Saturday, January 11, 2025, surrounded by his loving family and Carol, his wife and best friend for 53 years. His passing marks the loss of one of the humblest and kindest individuals we have ever known—a man who gave so much of himself, with both heart and hands, to make our communities across San Joaquin County stronger and better.

This archived video is a testament to his heart.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Sonii4SYPE

Andy was a giant leader of immense integrity who lifted others through his life's work, whether in business, nonprofit endeavors, or simply through his daily interactions with people seeking a better life. He always encouraged those around him with his signature optimism-of (AP) always positive often saying, "This is the first day of the rest of our lives" with his brimming smile and unwavering positivity, Andy left a lasting impression on all who had the privilege to know him.

Andy’s life was a testament to service and compassion. For over 20 years, he served as the President/CEO of United Way of San Joaquin County (UWSJC), leaving an indelible mark on countless staff members, employers and community initiatives. He equally served as the Executive Director of the Child Abuse Prevention Council before joining UWSJC. He was a Founder of the Mary Graham Children’s Foundation. During his business career, Andy was a highly successful franchise owner in Stockton of many Carl's Jr. restaurants. He exemplified inclusivity and kindness by hiring young individuals with disabilities, many of whom remember his support and guidance to this day. And many recall the warm chocolate chip cookies he gave to everyone who came into his restaurant.

His accolades included Stocktonian of the Year, Goodwill’s Helping Hands award to Veteran of the Year to name a few. Andy was someone who acted not for credit nor awards. He was someone who deflected the limelight and never wanted to be the center of civic attention. His ability to motivate, encourage and move people towards greater heights was his personal reward.

A proud veteran, Andy served his beloved country in Vietnam as an Army door gunner on a Huey helicopter. He remained connected to his veteran community throughout his entire life and was ever present to support his military brethren in many veterans’ organizations.

His leadership extended to beloved local traditions, including his many years at the Asparagus Festival, where he brought joy to thousands while running Asparagus Alley. Andy and Carol were avid sports fans and attended countless athletic events on the campus of University of the Pacific. He was always a fan of Pacific athletics, life and God.

Upon retiring, Andy and Carol moved to Sparks, Nevada where they enjoyed life surrounded by his two adorable puppies (his other kids) and traveled to visit their grandchildren in a beautiful RV-with Carol by his side they created new adventures. In retirement Andy got rid of the business suits and converted to a more laid-back look by growing his silver hair into a long “Willie Nelson” braid style ponytail with a full beard. And in the spirit of one of Willie’s great song lyrics “I don’t go to funerals, and I won’t be at mine” My life has been a wonder, and I found my place in time.”

At the wishes of Andy and family no memorial service will be held. Instead, the family requests that cards and condolences be sent to United Way of San Joaquin County (777 N. Pershing Ave. Suite 2B, Stockton, 95203) and we will forward to the Prokop family. A donation in Andy’s name can be made to United Way of San Joaquin County where it will be directed to a local veteran support agency or a nonprofit of your choice.

Andy Prokop’s legacy will live on through the countless lives he touched and the enduring impact of his work. His kindness, humility, and dedication to making the world a better place will never be forgotten.

Rest in peace, Andy. You will never be forgotten.